The Perfect Mate!

I recently saw this picture on my FB news feed and I thought it was hilarious, yet very true. Very often men and women feel as though they will be waiting for an eternity for the “perfect” person to come into their life. I know I’ve personally felt like that in my past. Unfortunately marrying God is not an option, so you gotta understand no one is perfect and there will always be flaws present in the person you love. 

I recently got married and although I think me and my hubby vibe really good, we still think differently about many things. And it’s ok to think differently, we are all humans with our own way of thinking and free-will. But, what I am learning is that you gotta be with the one with whom you can deal with the differences and learn to learn from each other. 

If you’re waiting for the “perfect” person you will be waiting forever because that person does not exist. You are not perfect, so to expect perfection from someone else is unrealistic. 

As you wait for the “right one” for you, take some time to become the best person you can be. Get your “house” in order before you invite someone into your life. We all have baggage, hurts, pains and memories from our past. Realize we are all a work in progress. If the person you meet is willing to work on their “issues,” then they are someone worth going the extra mile for. 

Just my thoughts…


Author: koolaidsmile78

I'm a radical follower of Jesus Christ who is a newly wed with two handsome boys, who just wants to share my thoughts and experiences with those who care to read them. You can view and subscribe to my videos on YouTube: Koolaidsmile78 or my like my Facebook page: onecandleatatime. Enjoy!

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