Ok, I think it’s safe to say that the majority of single women have come up with this, “I wish my future man had these qualities” list. I’ve done it. Revised it a few times. Gave up on it. Prayed over it. Only to conclude, the only one who could actually fulfill my complete list would be the Lord himself.
Why are these list written by women so extensive? What if a woman met a man who only had three-fourths of her desired qualities, would he not be considered a good mate for her?
Yes, the Bible does say he will give you the desires of your heart, but what’s more important? Your will or God’s will for your life?
Please realize that not every guy that wears a suit and drives a fancy car is nice and has a bank account full of money. Those things are materialistic and fade with time. What females should be looking for is someone who has a good hrart, someone trust worthy, non abusive, not an abuser of alcohol, not easily angered and loves deeply. (just to name a few.)
Don’t get so caught up in what other people think is best for you. Do you. Know you and choose the best match for you.
Maybe his job isn’t the most glamorous. But, does he love what he does? Does he have dreams, goals and future aspirations? Does he treat his mother with respect? Does he honor God? Does he make you laugh? Is he dependable? Can you be yourself around him? It’s these types of questions that should be on women’s list as oppose to: 1. How much money does he make? 2. I want him to be no shorter that six feet. 3. He needs to know how to fix everything from the sink to your car. 4. Did he graduate from a four year university? 5. Does he have a six pack?
Let’s keep it real women. There are more of us than them, so be realistic when desiging your wish list. Don’t miss your blessing just because he drives a 2002 ride. Be happy he has a vehicle (which is probably paid off if it’s a 2002) to come see you and spend time with you.
At the end of the day, it’s his love for you that matters. If he would jump over the moon just to see you smile, then that’s the guy to consider.
Women, revise your list and get ready to meet your knight in shining armour.
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